General Resources

Listed here are Shidduchim-related educational resources recommended by people in the field.  If you know of other useful educational material or resources, please let us know.

Many of these books are available from multiple sellers.  We include a link with each title to the first on-line seller we found for that book.


The Shmuz on Bitachon - Finding and Keeping your Soul Mate
Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier

Head to Heart: What To Know Before Dating and Marriage
Gila Manolson

I Only Want to Get Married Once
Chana Levitan

A Diamond for Your Daughter
Sara Lebovics and Emuna Braverman

Get Real Get Married
Aleeza Ben Shalom

Dating Smart: Navigating the Path to Marriage
Rosie Einhorn and Sherry Zimmerman

Web Resources

 Get Clarity in Dating" - a FREE Dating E-Course
given by Dr. Chani Maybruch, social psychologist and relationship coach
Sign up and receive one e-mail per day for five days. Each five-minute email provides explanations and an exercise to gain self-awareness and clarity about what to look for in a dating partner to find the right match.

Allows singles to reach each other directly or through shadchanim.


These two websites allow singles to create profiles describing themselves and the kind of spouse they seek.  Shadchanim use these sites to find compatible singles and propose matches.  Singles are charged a fee in order to sign up.

Partners in Shidduchim collaborated with Raphael Lasry of ZivugTech to create a website for singles or their representatives to share singles’ profiles.  The Partners in Shidduchim website is free of charge.

M.A.P. Seminars
Rabbi Doniel Frank



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